
Just a few Experiences
Once, shopping with my friend in Manila I bought something from a Filipina at her stand. She gave me a good price since I was the first customer of the day, but what she did with the money I gave her was the interesting part. She proceeded to take my money and fan/touch all of her products that she was selling and mumble something.
I said to my friend, “Did you see what she did?”
She didn’t notice, but as we watched her I explained that the vendor was blessing the rest of her things so that she would have good luck in selling many items and getting rid of any bad spirits.
This also happened when I was pregnant and I was able to get good prices on many things because pregnant ladies must be good luck!
Spiritism is a very real part of everyday life in the Philippines. Even though it is considered to be a Christian country because of Catholicism, the Filipinos as a whole believe very strongly in spirits and the influences that they have on everyday life.
Another example- one day when we were taking an evening walk, while I was pregnant, this lady told us to hurry and get home. I was wondering why she said this, as it was the only nice time to walk since it wasn’t hot. My language teacher explained to me that she was referring to a spirit that she believed could harm and even take the baby of a pregnant lady if outdoors past dark.
Even watching the TV shows (which portrays people being transformed into other creatures and spirits) will confirm that the beliefs in these things many times control the lives of the people in this country- mainly through fear.
I am just scratching the surface here, even after being in the Philippines for more than two years as to the differences in core beliefs between Westerners and Filipino’s (I don’t want to say Asians because I don’t have enough experiences with other Asian cultures but I do know many are very similar to the Philippines). I don’t want to go into the whole history lesson on why things are this way, but I do want to paint a better picture for you as to what we are dealing with on a day to day basis. Understanding how the people think that you are trying to reach, is maybe, the first step to being able to share with them.
General Update
We are all doing fine here. We just got home from a 4 day SEND Annual Conference followed by a few days at the beach for a much needed vacation. Now it’s back to the busy schedule and day to day life.
Gilmer is very busy keeping up with the youth and college groups- and all that involves. Plus, he is helping teach the Bible classes in schools and sometimes with the music at our church on Sundays. He enjoys all of these things but sometimes the needs are hard to balance with family time as well. There just seems to be endless needs and its hard not to want to do it all yourself. The youth group is growing and we even had a day picnic at the beach with them last month (see picture below). They are planning on visiting an orphanage this December and we are hoping that it will help them see the needs of their own people.
I am continuing to plan the women’s fellowship which they named WOW (Women of the Word) after my home church’s women’s group- they just liked it so much. We meet monthly and I am hearing great things from the ladies that come. It is a much needed chance for them to grow together, have fun, encourage each other, and share each others burdens (for which there are many).
Kids Corner
The kids are doing great. Thank you for those that prayed for Nhaya. She is doing great at school and making friends now. She comes home saying, “Mommy I am friends with everyone at school now!” She loves to learn and although she still has a hard time with some things overall she is doing well.
Caleb is enjoying being a boy and playing with the many bugs we have around here. He even picked up this HUGE dead spider the other day and tried to scare his Mommy with it. (It worked too- cause I hate them!) He will be 5 in January and is looking forward to going to Kindergarten to be BIG like his sister.
Josiah is 10 months now and crawling all over the place. He is pulling up on all the furniture and is such a happy baby. The teenage girls at church just love him (since he’s white I think) and many of them have put their pictures with him on their Facebook. Many times I have to look around at church to find him because he just loves to go with everyone.
Prayer and Praises
Praise
-For our safe travels and the time with fellow SENDers and a family vacation (see picture below).
-For the different ministries that we are involved in and the way God is able to use us to reach the Filipino’s
-Nhaya was able to make friends and is doing well in school.
-His provision and all of you who pray for and support us! We are so blessed to have people who have a heart for the Philippines behind us and making it possible to be here.
Prayer
-To be able to balance ministry needs and schedules with family needs. We are new at this crazy schedule of Gilmer being gone most evenings and are working to find something that works well for our family.
-For continued growth and direction in the different ministries that we are both involved in. It is our desire to train the Filipinos to reach each other and not to be dependant on us as missionaries.
-Support. Our monthly support levels have been quite low and we are in need of more than $1,000 a month. This is for different reasons- inflation, a new family member, rising medical costs, and many supporters than are not able to continue supporting.
To be honest this has been a big burden on us so pray that we will trust God to provide all that we need. He already knows it!
Gilmer will be working on contacting some individuals and churches that seemed interested in what we are doing, so please pray for him as he includes that in his daily schedule.
Again, thank you for reading this prayer letter and keeping up with what, and how, we are doing. We pray that your time this month with family and friends for Thanksgiving would be wonderful. We also will celebrate and I was even able to find a turkey and bring it back from Manila with us!
In His Service,
Gilmer, Julie, Nhaya, Caleb and Josiah Paden
I Cor. 15:58
SEND Philippines
Lunch with the Youth at the beach, notice the native, no plates or forks, style.
Playing a game at youth group.
Fishmen at the beach.
On our vacation at the beach.
Josiah is getting so big! And cute too!
The WOW (Women's fellowship) group had a yard sale to raise money for our building project at our church. They raised 17,000 peso's ($350.), which is a lot here.
Last month Gilmer's parents were able to come for a visit and meet Josiah for the first time.

























